i feel like my partner of 4 years sees me as nothing more than a friend. sometimes i feel no better than a chatbot. im always listening to their problems, interacting with their interests and hobbies, complimenting them, encouraging them etc. i can't remember the last time they've show interest in who i am. what i like, what im doing, HOW im doing. they rarely compliment me aswell. it's partially my fault, as i stopped sharing these things with them. only because, when i do, it is met with dry replies or the topic complete switches over to them. there's no romance. a few "i love you" or "i miss you" texts, but that's basically it. it's been like this for half of our relationship and it feels like im too deep in to change any aspect of it. i don't even feel excited when they text me anymore. it breaks my heart.
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2 weeks ago
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Anonymous
1 week ago
My heart breaks for you! Obviously you’re not sharing anymore, how is it your fault? Is it your fault for not giving a love that you’re not even receiving a tiny bit? I’m not saying this to make you feel better or because I just wanted to say it. I say it because it’s true. And you’ve might’ve fallen out of love, I know that sounds horrible but, honey why feed a dead fish. If the glimmer and glammer is no longer shining after you’ve tried polished it, there’s no reason to keep going. And I KNOW I sound so damn negative but I genuinely feel so bad for you. You shouldn’t get treated this way. And I’m in no position to tell you what to feel or what to do. Tho I simply want you to ask yourself how happy you are and how happy you can be. How much are you worth and how much will someone treat your worth. Take care of you stranger, you’re worth more than all the stars<3
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