Babes as someone who got back with a cheater ex, trust me when I say it will only do you more harm than good. I understand that it’s hard to let go of someone you loved so deeply; with time your resentment towards them or even yourself will only grow stronger. I became someone I swore to never become— I constantly compared myself to other girls who I knew were my exes type, My nervous system was always at its peak because I was so so afraid of being betrayed once again, I couldnt eat properly for weeks after finding out I was cheated on, I begged for reassurance but somehow I found myself comforting my ex when it was ME who needed it the most. . Its now been 4 months since we’ve broken up and ive never been happier. I am no longer trying to hold myself up to be noticed by someone who couldn’t care less about me. I guess my demeanor also changed as well because more people are starting to befriend me(perhaps they can just feel my radiant energy now haha) but what am trying to say is that people have come into my life and treated me way beyond better than what my loser of a ex could and all without having to ask !!! I hope you realize your worth and you let yourself live the gracious life you deserve to live — free from any worries and absolutely happy :)