I don't know what to do anymore. I miss her so much its killing me. I can't accept the fact that she wanted another man that wasn't me. She promised me that when she was ready to date she would accept my confession so we can be together. I should've knew it was a lie when she kept saying she was scared to get into a relationship with me because she was scared of losing me if we ever broke up or fear of me cheating because of long distance. Not even like 2 months after we stopped talking she got into a relationship. And that really fucked me over because that meant that while me and her were planning on dating she already had her eyes on some other dude and was waiting for the right moment so she would date him. Does anyone have tips on trying to get over someone u never dated??
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2 weeks ago
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Anonymous
2 weeks ago
I’m ALMOST a in this exact situation, and I know how much it hurts because just because it wasn’t labeled doesn’t mean that the feelings weren’t there. And honestly with her moving on so fast, I think you need to realize it has NOTHING to do with you, not being enough for her etc. it has to do with her and her choice no matter if you ever know the reason, and you won’t, because closure will just open the wound again. My advice is cutting off contacts completely! Deleting pictures blocking socials, deleting contact (block if necessary) anything to erase her from popping back into your mind. Also understand that you don’t have to delete everything right away, it may take time, and that key, getting over her… listen… WILL TAKE TIME, with her moving on it’s harder to understand that. But I think you were more emotionally attached and more sensitive than she was. And because of that I do believe you will move on. Through time. Time is key, I’m sorry you had to go through this.. hopefully we will make it throughout together
Anonymous
1 week ago
I was hopefully able to get over her. And I'm glad i did, after reading your message u reply with it helped me and gave me tips on how to get over her faster. Thank you for everything i don't think i would've been able to. So thank you for everything again i cant thank you enough for your help.I hope your able to get out of that cycle also🙏🏻
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