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relationships 4 days ago

heyy guys, so i need a bit of help. since september, ive had a crush on a girl in my year, lets refer to her as Moon. she is a lesbian (im a girl) but shes been dating this stunning other girl who isnt in our school since, coincidentally, september. this girl kinda gives me the ick icl, not just cause shes dating Moon but cause she js seems like not a good person to hang around ykwim? but heres the thing. ever since we got back to skl after christmas, this other girl in my class has been looking quite fine. im gna call her Star. shes had a haircut and omfg its beautiful! and, i feel like ive developed a bit of feelings for her. i still like Moon tho but like, idk, i think i like Star aswell?? and the more i think about it the more i realise that i think these feelings have been slowly accumulating for like over a year!!! but the bad part is Star is straight (but she has some really good masculine potential...) and i dont wanna see, weird for liking 2 girls at the same time, so i havent told many friends about Star, esp cause everyones built up the ship of me and Moon and everyone wants us together, but i cant isgnore these feelings for Star, even if idk if its an acc crush yet. Like my friends have hyped me up about Moon so much, like, i don't want to back out now ykwim. Also, with the people that know aboit Moon, theyre all really close to Star so it would be quite awkward even if i did tell them. But this happened before, when i said that its been accumulating for a year, ik when it started cause i developed a mini crush on Star for genuinely 3 weeks in october 2024, and then ig the feelings layed low but now they're back. but at least with Moon i can acc get with her cause shes lesbian, an di dont want to be yearning away at Star for the next few years or wtv.... idk if i need advice or smth, but like, tell me what u think of this. have a good day/night, remember youre loved!!!! :)

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Anonymous 3 days ago
hellooo ^_^, I stumbled across this so I'll try n answer as a fellow sapphic girly ! (who's horrible when it comes to love, I'm currently in love w someone for the past YEAR no it's likely they don't like me back, but I'll try <3) so lets talk ab moon first. Shes currently in a relationship,,, n as much as you like her you have no right to try n break them apart or manipulate the situation in your favour to get w her.. ya gotta respect her n her gf even if it hurts n you're jealous n I totally get the feeling,, it hurts :( however,, here's the catch - what ab the person Moon is dating??? Is the "ick" enough to warrant concern? ,, if you feel like she isn't a great person to be w moon or she's harming you or her in any shape or form it's totally okay to talk ab that w Moon,, it doesn't mean she'll respond well or will agree w you, but that options always open,, for now I don't see a great possibility of you dating moon if she's in a long term relationship. Now,,, star !111! She's a pretty, magnetic girl you've fallen for,, unfortunately she is straight. If you wanna be friends w her you can absolutely do that :D we have no idea how she would respond if she knew you liked her,,, you can confess to her if ya want, but it might end in heartbreak, n rejection sucks D: idk what you should do either, but if you had to shoot your shot , Id say neither. I'm so sorry it's heartbreaking,,, have a lovely day as well n you're very very loved as well <333 this is only my opinion btw, do whatever the hell you want n I wish you the best hehebe
Anonymous 11 hours ago
Having a little unsure crush on a straight girl is PAINNNN :(( also I really like how the person above me types it’s rlly fun
Anonymous 10 hours ago
HELLOO???,,, same person who types fun here !1! you're gen sososos sweet i immediately like you for this bud thank youuus <3 ^_^ have a very awesome day gang :D crashed out

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